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Three horny Swedish dudes walk into a bar. Nobody gets what they expected.
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Shall We Go to Your or My Place or Each Go Home Alone? (1973)

cringe comedy70s desperationmasculine fragility

Overview

ComedyTV Movie

Arne, Calle, and Gunnar are friends, probably in their twenties. One telephones the others, and they decide to visit a nightclub. They hope to meet women and have sex. After they arrive at the club, each man meets with a certain degree of success or failure. Calle particularly is frustrated, for no woman agrees to dance with him. Meanwhile, Arne and Gunnar are busily conversing with women. Eventually the friends all leave with lady friends in tow, and spend the night in various apartments. In the morning, the couples depart differently. One couple has bonded amicably, another tenuously, and the third not at all. The next day, the men reconnect, and decide to try their luck again. Written by veloc

Flag of SESESwedish
Content warning

Standout Aspects

Direction

Hallström's intimate, almost documentary-style observation.

Acting

Engström's sweaty desperation is physically painful to watch.

Editing

Sharp cuts between parallel humiliations.

Best for:Solo: Late night with wine and secondhand embarrassment.·Friends: Laugh at how little men have changed in 50 years.·Rewatch: Spot Hallström's early style before Hollywood gentrified him.
Heads up:Sexual Content: Casual 70s attitudes toward consent that will make you squirm.·Language: Untranslated Swedish slang about rejection.
Lasse Hallström

Director

Lasse Hallström

ReleasedApr 2, 1973
Runtime52m
StatusReleased

Vibe

Pacesteady
Intensitylow
Tonemixed
Feellight
Sveriges Radio
TV 2

Top Cast

Stig Engström

Stig Engström

Calle

Anita Ekström

Anita Ekström

Cia

Göran Stangertz

Göran Stangertz

Gunnar

Claire Wikholm

Claire Wikholm

Claire

Christer 'Bonzo' Jonsson

Christer 'Bonzo' Jonsson

Benke

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Insight

Hallström made this for Swedish TV at 27, five years before his breakthrough 'My Life as a Dog.' You can see his obsession with awkward male vulnerability already fully formed.

Cultural

This aired during Sweden's 'pornography debate' era, when state-funded films could be surprisingly frank about sexual failure. The title became a catchphrase for transactional hookup culture.

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